What Makes Me Successful Seducing Other Women
Strip Fan asked in response to my post about the Sorority Girls what it was about me that caused other women to open up and be receptive to me.
I believe it is a combination of things, actually.
If you ask most women what makes them notice and be attracted to someone, they will almost invariably say two things: A sense of humor, and self confidence. I have both of those traits, and women find those them just as attractive in other women as they do men. You guys should understand this as well because when you meet a new guy, you, too, will feel much more comfortable with someone who has a sense of humor and acts like they know what they're doing (usually).
Women are more naturally trusting of other women, and they sure don't expect to be seduced by one. When women are talking with men (esp. ones they've just met), they will be on the lookout for signs that they are being hit on - any woman would be a fool not to. But when you meet other women, you don't raise those shields like that.
Now, how do I come on to them? Well, that varies by the situation, and more importantly by the individual. I have stated many times that I believe at least 80% of all women have an innate curiosity about what it would be like to fuck another woman (and I am considering revising that percentage upward, by the way). One of the main reasons they don't act on it is that they have no clue how to go about doing so. Where do you look? How do find or ask someone if they'd be interested in it? What do you do if you find someone who seems like they'd like to have sex with you?
And of course, there's that fear of rejection which, in these kinds of cases could spell a nightmare. If you get busted trying to come on to another (unreceptive) woman who is in a position to out you to someone else by making a scene (for example), then you could be in deep shit. I on the other hand don't care if I try to hit on someone who rejects me and/or outs me to others because I am comfortable with my sexuality. If someone else finds out, oh well.
I bring that to them - and over the course of a conversation with them, I will intentionally swing it around to the subject of sex. One thing leads to another, and I may bring up something like the fact that Angelina Jolie fucks other women (and how many times have you heard women say they'd "go lez" for AJ?). That almost always gets who I am with talking about the subject of lesbian sex. I read comfort levels, and if I sense an opening, I will pursue it. Maybe I'll mention my ideas about the differences between fucking a guy and fucking another woman and let her mind wander for a few minutes. I may make a comment about something that invokes a visual in their mind (mentioning the taste of another woman's lips, for example), and then go to the bathroom for a few minutes. In the interim, their mind *will* wonder what another woman's lips taste like. When I get back, I pick up right where I left off after it has cooked for a few minutes! Pretty simple when you get right down to it.
I also happen to be very attractive and "sexy" (so I've been told), I know how to use my mind and my body to garner attention (I work as a stripper, so you'd have to believe that), and I have the ability to read people (and as a dancer, that is critical to making good money). You mix all of that with the attributes above, and add a dose of attitude and sexual self confidence, and give it to someone who knows how to use it, and it can be a pretty powerful force.
If you catch people with their guard down, in the right set of circumstances (think college girls, out of town with no limits, a little bit of drinking, etc.), and add the package described above, and it almost can't fail. And, even if I don't get into bed with them, the mental game and the challenge of it all is always a learning experience for me - there's no such thing as a failure in my book.
I have no set pattern I use. As you might imagine, everyone is different, so there's no one formula that works every time. I promise, though, if you read through the Art of Seduction articles I am posting, you'll get some valuable insight into how it all works.
Anyway, I promise to get more up to date posting those AoS articles. I've been busy lately, but I'll get caught up.
If you have any questions, let me know, either here or via e-mail.
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I believe it is a combination of things, actually.
If you ask most women what makes them notice and be attracted to someone, they will almost invariably say two things: A sense of humor, and self confidence. I have both of those traits, and women find those them just as attractive in other women as they do men. You guys should understand this as well because when you meet a new guy, you, too, will feel much more comfortable with someone who has a sense of humor and acts like they know what they're doing (usually).
Women are more naturally trusting of other women, and they sure don't expect to be seduced by one. When women are talking with men (esp. ones they've just met), they will be on the lookout for signs that they are being hit on - any woman would be a fool not to. But when you meet other women, you don't raise those shields like that.Now, how do I come on to them? Well, that varies by the situation, and more importantly by the individual. I have stated many times that I believe at least 80% of all women have an innate curiosity about what it would be like to fuck another woman (and I am considering revising that percentage upward, by the way). One of the main reasons they don't act on it is that they have no clue how to go about doing so. Where do you look? How do find or ask someone if they'd be interested in it? What do you do if you find someone who seems like they'd like to have sex with you?
And of course, there's that fear of rejection which, in these kinds of cases could spell a nightmare. If you get busted trying to come on to another (unreceptive) woman who is in a position to out you to someone else by making a scene (for example), then you could be in deep shit. I on the other hand don't care if I try to hit on someone who rejects me and/or outs me to others because I am comfortable with my sexuality. If someone else finds out, oh well.
I bring that to them - and over the course of a conversation with them, I will intentionally swing it around to the subject of sex. One thing leads to another, and I may bring up something like the fact that Angelina Jolie fucks other women (and how many times have you heard women say they'd "go lez" for AJ?). That almost always gets who I am with talking about the subject of lesbian sex. I read comfort levels, and if I sense an opening, I will pursue it. Maybe I'll mention my ideas about the differences between fucking a guy and fucking another woman and let her mind wander for a few minutes. I may make a comment about something that invokes a visual in their mind (mentioning the taste of another woman's lips, for example), and then go to the bathroom for a few minutes. In the interim, their mind *will* wonder what another woman's lips taste like. When I get back, I pick up right where I left off after it has cooked for a few minutes! Pretty simple when you get right down to it.
I also happen to be very attractive and "sexy" (so I've been told), I know how to use my mind and my body to garner attention (I work as a stripper, so you'd have to believe that), and I have the ability to read people (and as a dancer, that is critical to making good money). You mix all of that with the attributes above, and add a dose of attitude and sexual self confidence, and give it to someone who knows how to use it, and it can be a pretty powerful force.
If you catch people with their guard down, in the right set of circumstances (think college girls, out of town with no limits, a little bit of drinking, etc.), and add the package described above, and it almost can't fail. And, even if I don't get into bed with them, the mental game and the challenge of it all is always a learning experience for me - there's no such thing as a failure in my book.
I have no set pattern I use. As you might imagine, everyone is different, so there's no one formula that works every time. I promise, though, if you read through the Art of Seduction articles I am posting, you'll get some valuable insight into how it all works.
Anyway, I promise to get more up to date posting those AoS articles. I've been busy lately, but I'll get caught up.
If you have any questions, let me know, either here or via e-mail.
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posted by StripGoddess at 12:59 AM
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By the way, are you familiar with the "Horny Boy Diary"?
http://www.geocities.com/horny_boy_diary/
Sadly not updated recently, it is the diary of a young man in San Francisco who is extremely gifted in the areas of intelligence and charm, as well as looks and wealth.
Much like certain other diaries that could be mentioned, it is fascinating as a glimpse into a sphere of life that most less-well-endowed people do not get to experience first-hand; for the same reason, it eternally provokes doubts from readers as to veracity.
Anyway, I'd much rather read your thinking on seduction framed in terms of first-person stories, of which there are so few recorded from a perspective such as yours, than in terms of a theoretical treatise, of which there are so many already.
Cheers!
See! I'm not the only one.
So to seduce women all I have to do is become an attractive, sorry, very attractive and "sexy" women who has experience using her body and mind to garner attention; then add a bit of telepathy and I'm set. Shouldn't be a problem.
I envy the fact that women don't immediately put up their guard as you confidently and humerously hit on them with your sly ways. That can be annoying; then again when women try to hard and flirt excessively, I tend to lose interest even though it's somewhat flattering. Really, really hot girls have flirted with me (I swear I wasn't dreaming) and it just scared me away at the time. Later I'd kick myself of course, thinking of the awesome sex I could have enjoyed with them; especially since they seemed like girls who were in touch with their sexuality. But for some reason they don't really get discouraged by the way I ignored them; sure they are pissed but as soon as I give them any level of attention they go back to wanting to jump on me. As I write this, I can't help but wonder 'what the fuck was I thinking?', those girls (two in particular come to mind) were fucking hot; oh well I guess I like the challenge. Either way, from what I could decipher, both of them, even though they seem to change boyfriends often, were looking for long term relantionships; and I know I'd have trouble getting rid of them on account of the great sex we'd have and the fact that I hate breaking people's hearts (hurray for polygamy, I say). Deep down I probably knew they weren't right for me; but god damn it what the fuck was I thinking, I swear I should just put my brain on automatic pilot sometimes and let my dick do the thinking.
Even funnier is that one of them, who is actually a friend of mine not jus some random acquaintance, was the target of every guy's desire. When they saw the way she'd flirt with me they look with eyes that said you bastard; but as time went by whenever people were praising her or she was feeling lonely they'd look at me and clearly think, again, 'what the fuck were you thinking'. But girls that are actually very attractive (correct me if I'm wrong since this is apparently your case, I've yet to see the proof though) are sick of guys falling for them (wanting to fuck them in reality) because they are hot and therefor complimenting them on their appereance all the time. I just made her laugh and occasionally gave her a heartfelt compliment on her numerous abilities, for example she sings and plays guitar beautifully. Those sorts of compliments hit poeple in their soft spot cause they might be a bit moreinsecure about their abilities and that reasure; plus it's something they actually have control over. Hot girls know they are hot, they were born that way. For instance, you know very well that you are attractive, sorry very attractive, and sexy; you are just being modest (and truthfull i'm sure) when you say that that's what you've been told; which is cool and actually a good indicator that you are really attractive, sorry very attractive.
Everybody says that I'm a gorgeous hunk BTW but that's just what I've been told. hihihi
Well, you've certainly won me over and we've never even met in person. ;)
Really, you hit the nail on the head...and excellent blog entry too. I think confidence, that healthy ego (not over the top), is the #1 reason why women are attracted to men in the first place. ANd sadly, it's not a trait you find in women as often. heck, our society hardly allows us to be confident and certainly doesn't encourage us in that direction. :)
So, I can understand your technique and your success rate in helping women explore a bit more, and you've definitely addressed some of my own questions and curiosities. I'm one of those curious women wondering how, when, etc. I'd ever find or create the right situation to explore another woman. Maybe you could give us straight girls a guide to crossing over.... ;)
xoxox
Tara
It's higher than 80%... trust me. (wink)
Great post.
reading that made me want to be seduced by you, or any woman really. i've seduced before and i love it. i prefer to be seduced than to do the seducing.
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